New Insights on Human Happiness from a Dog’s Perspective
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Understanding Human Discontent
As a curious canine, I often ponder why my humans seem to be unhappy. Life as a dog can be somewhat limited, but that doesn’t stop me from observing. It’s me again, Bubbie, back to share my thoughts.
When my human calls me inside, I comply, but I wish she’d consider my feelings. Perhaps I’d prefer to stay outside, chasing birds or barking at the mailman. My human doesn’t appreciate my barking; she says it frightens him. Once, a mail carrier even jumped into her car, fearing I might harm her.
Before you jump to conclusions, I assure you, I’m not vicious—just vocal. I've never harmed a soul. Besides, who could trust mail carriers? I’m merely safeguarding my humans from potential threats, like letter bombs—something I believe I’ll encounter one day.
From my interactions with humans, I've identified several reasons behind their unhappiness.
Humans Overthink
From what I’ve seen, humans spend too much time worrying about future events. Worrying about something that may happen next week baffles me. It only leads to anxiety! Please, humans, save your worries for when those moments actually arrive.
If you’re not fretting about the future, you’re likely dwelling on past mistakes. Yes, perhaps you made a blunder a month ago, but can you change it now? No? Then why let it weigh you down?
I’ll say it once: embrace the present. If I were to fret about my human scolding me for barking, I wouldn’t be nearly as happy. Look at me—barking away at the mailman and loving life!
Humans Wear Masks
Humans, you are enough just as you are. Trying to be someone else is not only tiring but creates a sense of disconnection.
I’m always my true self, which is why I’m a joyful pup. When I’m happy, I express it; when I’m sad, I do the same. I refuse to pretend to be someone I’m not.
I’ve noticed that pretending often leads to misunderstandings among humans, which can spark arguments. And conflicts aren’t beneficial for our pack—after all, most of us yearn for a sense of belonging.
Humans Compare Lives
Life is not a race! Dogs don’t compete to see who can chase the most mail carriers. Sure, we might squabble over food, but once our bellies are full, all is well.
Constantly comparing your life to others' will only bring discontent. I’ve heard about this peculiar thing called social media, where everyone showcases their best moments while hiding the struggles.
This creates an illusion that you’re failing when, in fact, most humans are not failures. If you can scratch my belly, you’re succeeding in my book!
Life Doesn’t Go as Planned
Not everything in life can be meticulously planned. Sometimes, you just have to roll with the punches. There are days when the mailman simply doesn’t show up.
I could sulk indoors about it, but instead, I dash outside to chase birds. Just because things don’t unfold as expected doesn’t mean they’re all bad. Life may turn out even better than you envisioned if you maintain a positive outlook.
Gratitude is Essential
I’ll admit, I can be needy for attention, but that doesn’t mean I’m ungrateful for the love I receive.
I’ve noticed that humans often desire more, believing nothing is ever enough. Take a moment to appreciate what you have—like the joy pets bring to your life.
We truly enhance your days in countless ways. So, cherish those simple moments, like an evening stroll with your dog.
Remember, we pets want you to be happy. Do your best, and if you ever feel down, we’ll be right there to cheer you up with our unconditional love.
-Bubbie
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