Lessons Learned from a Writer I Didn't Enjoy Reading
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Chapter 1: The Unexpected Teacher
It's interesting to note that one can gain valuable lessons from individuals whose work they may not admire. Often, people can unknowingly contribute to our personal growth in significant ways. Early in my career, I had the chance to work at a media company where I encountered a well-known writer. While I didn’t particularly enjoy his writing, he nonetheless influenced me profoundly.
He was not only a writer but also a columnist and storyteller, significantly older than I was. While our relationship was more professional than friendly, working alongside him allowed me to observe him closely and glean insights from his behavior.
Observation is a powerful tool; it sheds light on both admirable qualities and those less desirable. In this case, I found his self-promotion impressive, yet I remained unmoved by his writing. Through our interactions, I discovered numerous lessons about what to embrace and what to avoid in my own writing journey.
Section 1.1: The Importance of Making a Point
One of the most crucial lessons I learned is the necessity of making a point in writing. Through interactions with many seasoned writers, I recognized this principle repeatedly. I made a conscious decision to ensure that every piece I wrote had a clear message. However, this particular writer seemed to lack that clarity.
Despite having started as a columnist, he often shied away from taking a definitive stance. His writing, while skillfully crafted, lacked depth and perspective. He played it safe, prioritizing political correctness over genuine insight.
Working with him revealed that his fear of risk had turned him into a prisoner of his own fame. While it made him popular and financially successful, it left a void in his writing. I often felt as if something essential was missing from his work.
The first video explores essential lessons about writing, emphasizing the importance of clarity and purpose in a writer's work.
Section 1.2: Giving Credit Where It's Due
Another important lesson was the necessity of recognizing contributions. His writing relied heavily on research, yet he never acknowledged the support he received. I often conducted extensive research for him, providing the foundational material for many of his columns and books. Despite my significant role, he never expressed gratitude or offered credit, not even a simple "thank you."
This lack of acknowledgment taught me the value of crediting others. When I began writing columns, I made it a point to acknowledge any assistance I received with a "with inputs from…" mention.
Subsection 1.2.1: Respecting Your Peers
During a professional trip to London, I was asked to moderate a session with him and a distinguished British guest. As we walked to the venue, he basked in the attention from fans, which inadvertently disrespected our guest, who had been waiting for him.
Despite being late and not apologizing, he was preoccupied with the attention he received. This incident highlighted his disregard for peers and taught me the importance of respecting others in professional settings. I strive to support my colleagues and ensure that no one is kept waiting.
Chapter 2: The Value of Your Ideas
Lastly, I rarely received encouragement from him, which is crucial for an aspiring writer. While he advised me to focus on a single topic, I preferred to explore various subjects. Ironically, he often wrote on diverse topics himself, which contradicted his advice.
When I confronted him, he dismissed my concerns. Though I didn’t hold a grudge, I did recognize the significance of encouragement in fostering a writer's growth. A writer's conviction in their ideas is paramount; if you believe in a topic, pursue it.
The second video shares ten vital lessons learned during a writer's first year, focusing on the importance of encouragement and believing in one's ideas.
In summary, my experience with this writer, despite my lack of admiration for his work, provided invaluable lessons. I have since moved on in my career, applying the insights I gained from observing him. Ultimately, I learned that one does not have to agree with everything others say; what truly matters is your own conviction and belief in your ideas.
I owe a certain gratitude to this former colleague for the lessons he imparted, intentionally or not, which continue to shape my writing journey.