Chapter 1: Understanding the Real Struggles of Writing

In my recent reflections on my writing journey, I’ve realized that the hardest parts of daily writing aren't what most people might think. After committing to writing almost every day for about two months, I've taken some time to evaluate my experiences. As an overthinker, this assessment felt necessary.

Interestingly, I’ve found certain aspects of writing to be just as straightforward now as they were at the beginning. However, there’s one key area that continues to become increasingly challenging, and it might not be what you’re expecting.

Let's kick things off by highlighting the aspects I’m NOT struggling with:

Finding Ideas: Generally, this has not been an issue. While I occasionally forget to jot down ideas before they slip my mind—something I’m actively working on—I’m fortunate that coming up with topics has been relatively easy.

Motivation to Write: This has also not been a problem for me. Each morning, I wake up enthusiastic and ready to express myself. I feel driven to share my thoughts, assist others, and hopefully generate some additional income for my family. Writing genuinely brings me happiness!

Now, let’s shift focus to what I find challenging:

Allocating a consistent amount of time daily—just the right amount—for my Medium endeavors is proving to be quite tough.

On some days, I find it hard to balance writing with other responsibilities while my kids are at school. I constantly remind myself that I need to prioritize running errands, hitting the gym, and spending time with friends. I must avoid becoming consumed by my writing.

Conversely, there are days when I fail to appreciate the value of my writing pursuits. Since this isn’t a conventional job, it can be difficult for others, and even myself, to recognize that I deserve to dedicate time to it. If I keep neglecting my goals, I won’t make the progress I aspire to achieve.

Both issues could be resolved with a well-structured daily schedule. So why am I resisting this so much? Perhaps it’s a lingering effect from years spent in corporate settings, feeling governed by others. I might worry that by taking charge of my own schedule, I’m sacrificing my freedom.

This line of thinking is misguided. The ability to dictate my own hours and work when I choose is a significant blessing, one for which I am immensely grateful. My husband’s income allows me to treat my contributions as supplementary, which is a privilege I don’t take lightly.

What I’m truly grappling with is a nagging doubt: “Is what I’m doing worthwhile? Am I good enough?” I need to silence that inner critic. I would never undervalue your efforts or your words; I recognize their importance. So, why can’t I extend the same courtesy to myself?

In summary—much to the chagrin of my English teachers who advised against concluding with that phrase—I need to embrace my worth, acknowledge that my contributions matter, and recognize that my writing is indeed a form of work. I deserve to enjoy this process, and I want you to find joy in your work as well.

So yes, I can do this. Right?

In this video titled "The Hardest Part of Writing | Author Confessionals | Epic Reads Exclusives," various authors discuss the unexpected challenges they face in their writing journeys. Their insights may resonate with anyone navigating the complexities of writing.

Chapter 2: Writing About Difficult Topics

The video "Five Authors on 'We Can Write about Hard Things'" features a panel of writers discussing the importance of tackling challenging subjects in their work. This conversation sheds light on why confronting tough topics is essential for growth and connection in writing.