Chapter 1: The Path to Self-Discovery

At the age of 39, I've spent a considerable amount of time on a quest to understand my true self. For a long time, I tried to identify who I was by measuring myself against those around me. My self-worth was largely shaped by a competitive mindset, where I felt the need to outperform others. However, a significant transformation took place in my early teenage years, leading me to realize that competing against myself was much more fulfilling.

Why do I find joy in self-competition? Although I could write extensively on this topic, the simplest explanation is that it offers a win-win scenario. Yes, you read that correctly! Competing with myself is rewarding because it provides valuable lessons when I fall short of my own expectations, and a reason to celebrate when I surpass them. Given this perspective, I genuinely question why anyone would choose to compete with others; it seems like an inefficient use of energy, and I prefer to conserve my energy for endeavors that truly matter to me.

Through this ongoing journey of self-competition, I have gained profound self-awareness. I can now predict with remarkable accuracy whether an endeavor will succeed or fail based on my understanding of myself. I've reached a point where I no longer place significant value on the opinions of others (after all, it's not their life, so why should it matter?). My focus is now directed towards activities that bring value not only to myself but also to my community because, despite what society may suggest, we are not solitary beings. Humans thrive in social environments, and acknowledging this fact enhances our lives.

Letting go of concerns about others' opinions regarding my choices has liberated me. This freedom has allowed me to engage in pursuits that I genuinely enjoy. Currently, I am enrolled in culinary school, work as a full-time Tarot reader on TikTok, and write quirky articles about food, travel, and home cooking. Each of these endeavors reflects my passions and contributes to a life that feels perfectly aligned with who I am. The transformation I’ve experienced is a result of my courage to release everything that no longer serves me. I encourage you to embark on a similar journey.

Let go of what holds you back, and witness yourself soar beyond your greatest aspirations.

Victoria Svanikier (Writer/Author)

Check out my Etsy store. The more I delve into my own identity, the more creativity flows for me to explore. I appreciate your support on this journey, and I celebrate each of you as you navigate your own paths. May you immerse yourself in the life of your dreams.

Happy Sunday!

Chapter 2: Embracing Passion and Purpose

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In the video "How To Find Your Purpose & Passion In Life," viewers are guided through effective methods to discover their true purpose and reignite their passions.